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I have 2 lids...4 & 2. Out of the blue Saturday my wife said she doesn't love me anymore and left....took the kids. All was great (so I thought) before that.

Hardest 2 days of my life so far.......any advice?
 

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I have a friend who went through the same thing 2 years ago and still haven't moved on. Most of the time I would say another man is involved, hopefully this isnt it. I would just suggest you keep a cool head and try over time to find out what the problem is and see if you guys can work it out maybe go to counseling.
 

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I'm going through something similar right now with a split of a 4 year relationship and I know how you are feeling right now.

I'm sorry to see you or anyone going through this Intruder.

Living hell....
 

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I'm going through something similar right now with a split of a 4 year relationship and I know how you are feeling right now.

I'm sorry to see you or anyone going through this Intruder.

Living hell....

no the girl from your avatar :(
 

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Dude...
This is the greatest day of your life....you just dont realize it.

Once you get past the heartache you will realize all the freedom that you lost when you got married.

Food taste better
Gambling is funner
Partying is funner.

I have been divorced for over 19 years. I have a 21 yr old daughter and 2 yr old Grand Daughter...life is great for me right now.

I AM HAPPILY DIVORCED!!!
 

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Especially tough with kids involved otherwise could just tell her to F -off and have a good life
 

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I have 2 lids...4 & 2. Out of the blue Saturday my wife said she doesn't love me anymore and left....took the kids. All was great (so I thought) before that.

Hardest 2 days of my life so far.......any advice?


sorry to hear man ... my guess is when they say that they have found someone else.. or they think the grass is greener on the other side it never is

you will survive man just don't fall into a rebound thing to fast best of luck, id lay off the gambling for a bit to man no sense gambling when depressed
 

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yea the spanish the girl, think the pic was inside a car



Yeahhh, that's her.

4 Years.

I love Hispanic girls but I despise the way their culture is and the way their family get involved & cause problems, and the way many of the females especially, ALLOW them to do it...
 

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Inturder apparently you are in love with her because as some of the other comments which have been made, you wouldn't care if you weren't.

And yes when kids are involved it's even twice as bad on the men because the female is only losing one person, the man is losing her and however many kids are involved. Just not fair in life....
 

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I have 2 lids...4 & 2. Out of the blue Saturday my wife said she doesn't love me anymore and left....took the kids. All was great (so I thought) before that.

Hardest 2 days of my life so far.......any advice?

stay strong, and remember your children need you more than you do them. Do everything you can to be involved for them

never went through what you have, so I don't have much more advise. It's only two days, so it's has to be really hard. I do know time heels all wounds, I do know people sometimes do get back together, I do know that whenever one door closes, another one opens.

Be there for your kids, and be the best person you can be, things will work out for you. control what you can control.
 

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I have 2 lids...4 & 2. Out of the blue Saturday my wife said she doesn't love me anymore and left....took the kids. All was great (so I thought) before that.

Hardest 2 days of my life so far.......any advice?

Wow, this is why I hate women and could never give a woman my heart - she does not love you anymore? WTF is that? I understand that I get what I deserve but if I had a wife that I loved and I took care of and I had kids with get up and leave for no reason whatsover I would take the kids out of the house - tie her to the bed - and literally set the house of fire - completely out of the blue is what I don't get?
 

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having a good support system is the nuts...... Hang with your friends, smoke weed, bang chicks............ It will get better!!!!!!!

I should know, Ive been divorce twice, not making that mistake again.............
 

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I have 2 lids...4 & 2. Out of the blue Saturday my wife said she doesn't love me anymore and left....took the kids. All was great (so I thought) before that.

Hardest 2 days of my life so far.......any advice?

I have a friend with 3 kids all under 6. His wife kicked him out and told him she wanted a divorce. He loved his kids and was a good father so he begged and pleaded with her and she let him back. I think it was the way the kids reacted when he was gone and how happy they were to see him that she realized they would be better off together.

Can you play the angle that the kids miss you when you're gone and it's not good to split up your family when they are so young?
 

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How can the women just take the kids like it's her property? Fathers love and are devoted to their children and to treat men like second class parents is shameful. You wanted to leave bitch the kids don't want this.
 

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I can't imagine being away from my daughter...the wife? HELL YES, but my daughter? Can't imagine it, I would want to die. Then again, she's only 15 months old. I'm sure I won't be as eager when she's 15 years old and thinking she's 30.

GL dude. As tough as it is, stay strong!
 

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My friend's dad, total class act and very successful. Leaves for a TWO day out of state conference comes home and EVERYTHING is GONE, phone cut off ect. Doesn't even leave a note or make a phone call. My buddy, in shock, calls his mom and she says "she has some issues she has to sort out and wants a divorce". This happened a week ago, totally out of nowhere.

Don't really have any answers for you but I can tell you that you're not alone.
 

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